Thursday, April 16, 2009

How to peacefully end a relationship with your Nigerian partner

Sometimes one may find oneself in a relationship which apparently has no future or direction yet,quite a lot of us still remain because they do not know how to go about ending the relationship.In as much as going through this is unpleasant,tact and maturity must be applied.Accept the fact that its all over.Look inwards and assure yourself that you have to end the relationship.Do not procastinate once your mind is made up.Be sure to deliver the news face to face not by by call or sms or third party.Discuss the matter one on one.Another tool is to ensure that no matter what, the place you meet is private.Calm moments are the best time to break up. Not when any of the parties is angry.Use your best diplomacy skills mentioning good memories. Finally sound positive and make clear factual arguments while trying to answer any questions your partner may have.

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